How do I tell my boyfriend his (uncircumcised) penis doesn't smell all that great, without hurting his feelings, or making sex or oral awkward?
Logan: Sorry, but there's not a particularly subtle way to inform your boyfriend that he's got skunk junk. If it reeks, you must speak. If it smells, you must tell.
You don't have to be mean to get him to clean, but if his scent overpowers, tell him he must shower. Say, "Honey, when I go down on you, it's hotter when you smell fresh and clean."
You don't have to wrinkle your nose and tell him he's nasty to get your point across. Stress what turns you on (cleanliness) and he'll understand the implication of what turns you off (nasty-ass junk). A gentle nudge and a bar of soap should do it. Warm, damp environments breed bacteria, so tell him to dry off well — and maybe even show him this guide to keeping your junk odor-free.
It will be awkward, but the conversation will pass. If he knows that bathing properly will lead to more sex, my guess is he'll be inspired to keep himself squeaky clean. Finally, on the rare chance that a shower isn't enough, tell him to visit his doctor: It could be a bacterial infection, or even a symptom of an STI.
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You don't have to be mean to get him to clean, but if his scent overpowers, tell him he must shower. Say, "Honey, when I go down on you, it's hotter when you smell fresh and clean."
You don't have to wrinkle your nose and tell him he's nasty to get your point across. Stress what turns you on (cleanliness) and he'll understand the implication of what turns you off (nasty-ass junk). A gentle nudge and a bar of soap should do it. Warm, damp environments breed bacteria, so tell him to dry off well — and maybe even show him this guide to keeping your junk odor-free.
It will be awkward, but the conversation will pass. If he knows that bathing properly will lead to more sex, my guess is he'll be inspired to keep himself squeaky clean. Finally, on the rare chance that a shower isn't enough, tell him to visit his doctor: It could be a bacterial infection, or even a symptom of an STI.
Do you have a question for Logan about sex or relationships? Ask him here.
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